When a person is born their childhood is already defined what jobs their parents have and what they have. As they grow older they are more and more defined by whatever their parents are able to give them. they are influenced by what their parents go through, because until they are old enough to understand what they have or who they are they are defined by the previous upbringing of their parents.
When a child is brought up in a multiracial household they face the discrimination that both parents endure. They see the struggle of each race or skin color faces. They are told stories of the oppression and have to hold that on their back for the rest of their life.
These children grow up to face many uncomfortable situations that many monoracial people would see as insulting and rude, these situations have an effect on their psyche. these situations include being forced to choose one race rather than being able to identify as mixed, or being called an “other”, situations come up where you are assumed as one race and the group of people start making racial slurs against a race you identify as (SFPT).
A research article, Understanding the Unique Experiences of Multiracial Individuals, raises awareness about the importance of understanding multiracial people when they are receiving therapy. When dealing with multiracial clients a tool used is the Multiracial Challenges and Resilience Scale, MCRS. A study was conducted asking multiracial people in urban areas to answer a series of questions concerning; others disbelief regarding racial background, lack of family acceptance, multiracial discrimination, appreciation of human differences, challenges with identity, and pride with racial background. The three studies conducted showed that on average 75% experienced discrimination specifically related to being multiracial (Ebsco host).
So what nobody dares to talk about is the possibility of other ethnicities having the privilege or is privilege even a real thing.
Privilege is believed to be an advantage that you are born with you are not acquired privilege, this advantage varies from being hired over other based on skin color to have an easier time buying groceries at a grocery store. it is seen as,”…a special advantage; it is neither common nor universal.” Because of statements like these, it is believed that privilege cannot belong to anyone but people of white skin color.
Privilege is not even brought up when being raised because privilege is what your parents can provide you. Privilege has nothing to do with skin color because of how broad that statement is. It cannot be determined whether “birthright” privilege is real because by definition privilege is “…any entitlement, sanction, power, and advantage or right granted to a person or group.”( Black Stone). multiracial people are being more discriminated against as they are believed to have more of an advantage over someone else who is part of one of their races. They have to face “Being… the black sheep” and “…are exposed to stereotypes of every race you are mixed with.”(affinity).
Privilege is a hard pill to swallow but skin color and race are not the only things people need to stop and think about. A study group showed that there were 20 categories of privilege.(black stone). The idea is too broad to believe that because a person is multiracial that they face more privilege than the less desired race.